{"id":26505,"date":"2022-01-05T00:00:00","date_gmt":"2022-01-05T00:00:00","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/blog-staging.saatva-node-stage.tsc-starts-coding.com\/benefits-of-cuddling\/"},"modified":"2024-08-06T14:49:07","modified_gmt":"2024-08-06T14:49:07","slug":"benefits-of-cuddling","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.saatva-node-stage.tsc-starts-coding.com\/blog\/benefits-of-cuddling\/","title":{"rendered":"6 Sleep and Health Benefits of Cuddling"},"content":{"rendered":"\n

It\u2019s well known that sex can help you sleep better<\/a>. [4]<\/sup> But did you know that good old-fashioned cuddling can help give you a good night\u2019s rest\u2014and even support your health and well-being?<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Even if you knew that, you may not know that cuddling a pet, real or stuffed, or even a favorite blanket, can have the same effect as cuddling with a human. [5]<\/sup> It\u2019s true!<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Read on to learn how cuddling can improve your sleep, support your health, and make you a happier person. Yes, it\u2019s that effective. Plus, find out what the best cuddle positions for sleeping are so you can reap the benefits.<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Sleep and health benefits of cuddling<\/h2>\n\n\n\n

You might say cuddling is a gift that keeps on giving right back to you. Consider these six ways cuddling can support your sleep and health:<\/p>\n\n\n\n

1. Relieves stress<\/h3>\n\n\n\n

Cuddling has been shown to release oxytocin in the brain. Commonly known as the \u201clove hormone\u201d or \u201ccuddle chemical,\u201d oxytocin calms you and relieves stress\u2014a major reason why people struggle to fall and stay asleep. [6]<\/sup> Oxytocin helps reduce the stress hormone cortisol so you can\u00a0snooze more easily<\/a>.\u00a0[7]<\/sup><\/p>\n\n\n\n

2. Lowers blood pressure<\/h3>\n\n\n\n

\u201cCuddling for even minutes reduces systolic and diastolic blood pressure,\u201d says Los Angeles-based psychologist Barbara Santini. [1]<\/sup> \u201cUnhealthy blood pressure levels, especially at night, increase cardiovascular risk, resulting in insomnia<\/a> and sleep apnea<\/a>.\u201d [8, 9]<\/sup><\/p>\n\n\n\n

One couples study found that simply holding hands for 10 minutes, followed by a 20-second hug, lowered blood pressure. [10]<\/sup> Another study found that more frequent hugging can both lower blood pressure and increase oxytocin. [11]<\/sup><\/p>\n\n\n\n

3. Eases pain<\/h3>\n\n\n\n

Cuddling can do more than provide emotional support after an injury. By releasing oxytocin, it can block pain messages to your brain. Cuddling can have similar effects as therapeutic touch, also known as healing touch, an alternative medicine practice aimed at balancing energy within the body to ease pain and stress. [12]<\/sup><\/p>\n\n\n\n

It involves lightly touching and passing one\u2019s hands over the patient\u2019s body. Even in people with fibromyalgia, therapeutic touch has been found to significantly reduce pain. [13] <\/sup>It can even increase dopamine levels, further supporting pain relief. [14]<\/sup><\/p>\n\n\n\n

4. Improves mood<\/h3>\n\n\n\n

Massage techniques similar to cuddling, such as stroking and squeezing, have been found to increase dopamine and serotonin, helping ease anxiety and reduce feelings of depression and hostility. [15]<\/sup> Serotonin also regulates your sleep-wake cycle, notes Santini. Hence, healthy levels of this hormone in your body can make you sleep better. [16]<\/sup><\/p>\n\n\n\n

5. Boosts immunity<\/h3>\n\n\n\n

Feeling happy and safe, the way cuddling makes us feel, helps your brain produce optimal levels of oxytocin and serotonin, which also helps strengthen your immune system. [1, 17]<\/sup> One study found that hugging and cuddling in bed may actually protect you against the common cold. [18]<\/sup><\/p>\n\n\n\n

6. Increases relationship satisfaction<\/h3>\n\n\n\n

Cuddling isn\u2019t just something romantic you do with your partner: It can actually benefit your relationship. Research finds that couples who cuddle not only tend to stay together but to be happier and healthier too. [19]<\/sup> This makes sense when you consider cuddling improves your mood and relieves physical pain, stress, and anxiety\u2014any of which can stand between partners in a relationship.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Couples who increase their cuddling report higher levels of satisfaction with their relationship. Their affection also makes it less likely they\u2019ll experience sleep disturbances. [20]<\/sup><\/p>\n\n\n\n

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Best cuddling positions for sleeping<\/h2>\n\n\n\n

Couples sleep together in all sorts of configurations<\/a>. Those who cuddle typically follow a few traditional styles.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u201cSpooning\u201d is when partners sleep on their side, with one \u201coutside spoon\u201d wrapped around the other \u201cinside spoon.\u201d Then there\u2019s a face-to-face \u201cpretzel\u201d cuddle with arms and legs entwined\u2014a cuddle position especially popular with newer couples.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

There\u2019s also the back-to-back kissers cuddle with only partners\u2019 backsides touching. The \u201cleg hug\u201d is common with longer-term couples. Their legs or feet touch, but not so much their bodies.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Of course, there\u2019s also the nuzzle, with one partner\u2019s head on the other\u2019s chest. Really there are so many ways to cuddle that the best part may be in sampling a variety of them.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Do you love cuddling all night long\u2014but your partner hates it? Check out our article on the common sleep problems couples face<\/a> to learn how to compromise so you can still enjoy cuddling without upsetting your relationship. We\u2019ve also put together our top tips for being a better sleep partner<\/a>.<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Cuddling with a stuffed animal or pet<\/h2>\n\n\n\n

Some folks simply can\u2019t cuddle with their bed partners because they\u2019re hot sleepers. Cuddling would actually prevent them from falling asleep comfortably.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

For them, \u201ca good alternative is cuddling with a stuffed animal<\/a> or the like,\u201d says Victoria Wildhorn, sleep health content specialist at Mattress Clarity<\/a>. \u201cThis will give you the same warm and safety effect as cuddling with another person would but without the unnecessary heat.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Katie Ziskind, licensed marriage and family therapist and owner of Connecticut-based Wisdom Within Counseling<\/a>, explains that maintaining an item to cuddle with as an adult can help you get a good night\u2019s sleep. \u201cIf you are an adult and you have a favorite stuffed animal or a favorite blanket, cuddling with this before you go to bed at night has been shown to promote more restful sleep,\u201d she says.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Cuddling with a pet<\/a> can be beneficial to sleep too. Their heartbeat and warmth foster the same feelings of safety, security, and love you\u2019d get from a human cuddle partner.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

What seems to matter most when it comes to cuddling is that we cuddle, not necessarily whom<\/em> or what<\/em> we cuddle.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u201cHaving something familiar to you calms your nervous system and lowers anxiety,\u201d says Ziskind. \u201cFor some people, they are cuddling with their dog or cat. For others, they are cuddling with a stuffed animal. Other people like to cuddle with a person.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n

The bottom line: \u201cWe are creatures that like to have comfort, and comfort is totally OK no matter how old you are,\u201d says Ziskind. \u201cThe most important thing is to know how you need comfort and what you like for comfort and be confident about that.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n

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Our best mattresses for cuddling<\/p>\n \n \n \n

\n \n \"saatva\n <\/a>\n\n \n

\n Saatva Classic Innerspring Mattress<\/a>\n <\/h4>\n\n \n

Our flagship luxury mattress is expertly engineered with coil-on-coil construction for durability, a layer of memory foam for enhanced back support, and a cushiony Euro pillow top for extra comfort.<\/p>\n\n\n

\n \n Shop Now\n <\/a>\n <\/p>\n <\/div>\n <\/div>\n \n

\n \n \"solaire\n <\/a>\n\n \n

\n Solaire Adjustable Firmness Mattress<\/a>\n <\/h4>\n\n \n

Featuring precise 50 firmness settings on each side of the bed for personal customization. Natural latex and gel-infused memory foam layers provide luxurious comfort and support.<\/p>\n\n\n

\n \n Shop Now\n <\/a>\n <\/p>\n <\/div>\n <\/div>\n \n

\n \n \"saatva\n <\/a>\n\n \n

\n Contour5 Mattress<\/a>\n <\/h4>\n\n \n

Luxurious body-hugging feel and pressure relief with 3\u201d of ultra-premium, high-density 5-lb memory foam. <\/p>\n\n\n

\n \n Shop Now\n <\/a>\n <\/p>\n <\/div>\n <\/div>\n \n

\n \n \"zenhaven\n <\/a>\n\n \n

\n Zenhaven Latex Mattress<\/a>\n <\/h4>\n\n \n

Natural latex responds to every curve for pressure-free support and responsive comfort. Natural latex is supple, resilient, and durable, for the ultimate in elevated sleep. (It’s naturally hypoallergenic too.)<\/p>\n\n\n

\n \n Shop Now\n <\/a>\n <\/p>\n <\/div>\n <\/div>\n \n

\n \n \"saatva\n <\/a>\n\n \n

\n Latex Hybrid Mattress<\/a>\n <\/h4>\n\n \n

This hybrid mattress combines the pressure-free support of natural latex with the classic innerspring feel. Handcrafted with pure materials for the ultimate in cool and healthy sleep.<\/p>\n\n\n

\n \n Shop Now\n <\/a>\n <\/p>\n <\/div>\n <\/div>\n \n

\n \n \"saatva\n <\/a>\n\n \n

\n Memory Foam Hybrid Mattress<\/a>\n <\/h4>\n\n \n

This memory foam hybrid mattress features the perfect balance of body-contouring and responsive feel. Enjoy the innovative cooling system, which prevents overheating.<\/p>\n\n\n

\n \n Shop Now\n <\/a>\n <\/p>\n <\/div>\n <\/div>\n <\/div>\n <\/div>\n\n\n\n\n

Best mattress for cuddling<\/h2>\n\n\n\n

You might enjoy cuddling all night, but sleeping on your side face-to-face with your partner or wrapped up like spoons can lead to achy hips and shoulders. Choosing a softer mattress, made from latex or foam, or an innerspring mattress with a plush pillow top, will allow your joints to sink in a bit and relieve the pressure.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Saatva offers a variety of latex, memory foam, and pillow top mattresses that are excellent for cuddling. Check out our selection of high-quality mattresses<\/a> or take our online mattress quiz<\/a> to find out which one is right for you and your partner.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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